"Shift Happens 10% of the Time"

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Peopler by Stephen R. Covey

Knowledge is the quickest and safest path to success in any area of life. Stephen Covey has encapsulated the strategies used by all those who are highly effective. Success can be learned and this book is an excellent way to learn how to do that.

As the title of the book implies, Covey describes the seven habits of highly effective people and techniques for adopting the seven habits. Covey makes clear that an individual must make a paradigm shift before incorporating these habits into his/her own personal life. A paradigm is essentially the way an individual perceives something. Covey emphasizes that if we want to make a change in our lives, we should probably first focus on our personal attitudes and behaviors. He applies different examples via family, business, and society in general.

This book's focal point is on an approach to obtain personal and interpersonal effectiveness. Covey points out that private victories precede public victories. He makes the example that making and keeping promises to ourselves comes before making and keeping promises to others.

The above video descrides an attitude is 10 percent what happens and 90 percent reaction. To achieve the transformation a peoson must first seek, to tap into the other person's hearts first and then focus on their thinking. People think they work for money…where in fact they are coming to work to get the money to spend on their dreams, goals, and families etc. When you tap into that perspective and there is an adjustment in the other peoson's thinking, attitude and performance. Human nature ensures everyone wants to be loved or appreciated and some people have not learnt how to achieve that at work.      

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Simple Steps of Positive Self Talk   
Abu Aremu

The application of Positive Self Talk is a simple task, which anybody who wants to apply the principle could do in just a few minutes in a day, and achieve remarkable results.


Positive Self Talk does not require any hard job or brain knocking, and neither does it require to be upbeat, cheerful or be in a enthusiastic mood all day. As a matter of fact, experts have demonstrated that Positive Self Talk only require a fraction of your daily time. You do not require more than 10 to 15 in a day to achieve all you want to achieve through this simple power provided freely by our Creator. For a beginner of this principle a period of 5 to 7 minutes in a day could be very effective.

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Positive Self Talk, in its simplest meaning is the act of removing negative thoughts and emotions from one's mind. In other words, it is having inner peace.


Positive Self Talk just happens when a person is at peace with himself. It is a natural occurrence which is transferred to the subconscious mind when a person is at perfect inner peace, within the short period, and the subconscious in its own intellectual power takes this feeling up and transfer the message to the Universal Power which in turn, materializes the positive thoughts into reality.

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One powerful and effective step in Positive Self Talk is Meditation. This simple but often neglected technique could be applied by sitting comfortably in a chair or by listening to a cool soothing music, or by performing any relaxation exercise. Meditation is clearing one's mind of negative thoughts. By relaxing and putting one's mind in a peaceful mood all negative thoughts are eased off from one's mind and in such a mood positive thoughts will find its ways in. You could practise this for 10 or 15 minutes anytime in the day.


Positive affirmations is another step in the application of Positive Self Talk. This widely accepted technique are positive statements made in present tense language to affirm that one is thinking positively of himself or to affirm that one is actually benefitting from the good things of life. These affirmations when made, are capable of achieving outstanding results especially if they are repeated often as the situation demands and if the affirmation is supported with positive thoughts.


Example of affirmations are:


I am a successful person.


Everything I do brings me good reward


I am a productive person.


Just as Meditation the message is passed to the subconscious mind which takes charge and passes it to the Universal Power which materializes the message and put it into a formed object.







Abu Aremu is an Internet Marketer and Motivator. He writes on many topics including Guides to Positive Mental Attitude and how to achieve greater heights in life. You can read life changing articles and resources from him at www.positiveselftalkguide.com and contact him to receive tips on how to improve your positive self talk by sinding mail to support@positiveselftalkguide.com

The Just Wait Teen Program

The teenagers of the Just Wait Teen™ program  are exposed to the information and research concerning their Happiness, their Temperaments, their Talents, their Attributes, their Gifts and how to maintain long term relationships. The Just Wait Teen™ program  is life enhancing program, not a substance rehabilitation program. Although its' objective is to give the teens tools and understandings to reach 21 years - substance free.

This Program was developed by the Just Wait Foundation a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit corporation to prevent drug, alcohol, and tobacco problems among teenagers. The Foundation provides one-year scholarships (two semesters) at a Community College or $1000 award to teens that completes the 4 year Just Wait Teen™ Positive Youth Development Program, obtains a GED, or graduates from high school - alcohol, tobacco, and drug free. The Just Wait Foundation has arranged to use of 80 acres to raise fruit and vegetables to finance the scholarships

We offer free training for any person or group that wants to start this program in their community.

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The Stanford Marshmallow Experiment

The Stanford Marshmallow Experiment must be the most astounding psychological study ever performed, or at any rate ranking right up there with some of the experiments done by Stanley Milgram.

Who would ever guess that a brief observation of a four-year old alone with a marshmallow would be an excellent predictor of college entrance exam scores — twice as good a predictor as IQ test scores? In one of the most amazing developmental studies ever conducted, Walter Michel of Stanford created a simple test of the ability of four year old children to control impulses and delay gratification.

Children were taken one at a time into a room with a one-way mirror. They were shown a marshmallow. The experimenter told them he had to leave and that they could have the marshmallow right then, but if they waited for the experimenter to return from an errand, they could have two marshmallows. One marshmallow was left on a table in front of them. Some children grabbed the available marshmallow within seconds of the experimenter leaving. Others waited up to twenty minutes for the experimenter to return.

In a follow-up study (Shoda, Mischel, & Peake, 1990), children were tested at 18 years of age and comparisons were made between the third of the children who grabbed the marshmallow (the "impulsive") and the third who delayed gratification in order to receive the enhanced reward ("impulse controlled").

The third of the children who were most impulsive at four years of age scored an average of 524 verbal and 528 math. The impulse controlled students who scored 610 verbal and 652 math! This astounding 210 point total score difference on the SAT was predicted on the basis of a single observation at four years of age! The 210 point difference is as large as the average differences between that of economically advantaged versus disadvantaged children and is larger than the difference between children from families with graduate degrees versus children whose parents did not finish high school!

At four years of age gobbling a marshmallow now v. waiting for two later is twice as good a predictor of later SAT scores than is IQ. Poor impulse control is also a better predictor of later delinquency than is IQ.

Obviously there's a strong correlation between IQ and impulse control. People who do well in life have lots of both, and vice versa for those who don't do well.

Sociologists have regaled us for years with their theories as to the causes of poverty: lack of education, structural causes, racism. But it seems that, at least where opportunity exists, the reason for differences in income and wealth is that the poor have high impulsivity.

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This Program was developed by the Just Wait Foundation a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit corporation to prevent drug, alcohol, and tobacco problems among teenagers. The Foundation provides one-year scholarships (two semesters) at a Community College or $1000 award to teens that completes the 4 year Just Wait Teen™ Positive Youth Development Program, obtains a GED, or graduates from high school - alcohol, tobacco, and drug free. The Just Wait Foundation has arranged to use of 80 acres to raise fruit and vegetables to finance the scholarships

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